Wednesday, October 2, 2013

What I've been up to the Past Two Months

The past two months have been absolutely crazy for my family and me.
After almost three years, we finally said good-bye to Okinawa and moved back to Kansas City.

The trip home consisted of:
26 hours of traveling
2 babies under the age of 2
3 different airplanes
1 parent

Yes, I had to travel across the world by myself with both babies.
Thank you Marine Corps.  My husband and I still can't believe 
they booked our flights separately.  Thankfully both Emma and Jude were
incredible throughout the entire trip.  They made what could have been an unbearable
experience quite pleasant.  I am so grateful for the blessing of well behaved children.
Bits and pieces of our long journey home


Getting out of the Marine Corps was a huge decision for my husband to make.
It was a decision that he and I both thought long and hard about, prayed about, and
held many conversations about.  We ultimately decided
that we had already spent way too much time away from Lilly and Raley.
Our lives, our home, our family were not complete without them.
It was time to go home and stay home.
Yes, my husband made a huge sacrifice in terms of his military career,
but there is nothing more important in life than family
and it was time to have ours together again.
Being reunited with our oldest girls and knowing that we will never leave them again
was worth any sacrifice we had to make.
There was no greater feeling than being reunited with the girls for the first time.


We ended up leaving Japan at the perfect time because 
we made it home just before Lillian Grace started kindergarten.
I am so glad she was able to have her Daddy there for this big milestone
in her life.  I know it meant a lot to Joshua that he was there for it.
Lilly is such an intelligent and imaginative little girl.
She has the capability to do incredible things with her life and to touch the lives
of many people with her genuine concern for others.  Her Daddy and me
are so excited to be home with her so we can help her reach her greatest potential. 
Lilly's first day of kindergarten.


Unfortunately Jude Scott was sick for almost the entire first month that we were home.
It started with the usual cold like symptoms that the babies always suffer through after flying,
but instead of going away after a week like they normally do they just got worse.
Turns out Little Man had his first ear infection.  The first round of antibiotics didn't clear it up
and he also developed an upper respiratory infection. 
 My baby boy was miserable.  It broke my heart.  I felt so helpless.  
All he wanted to do was cuddle with his Momma so that's exactly what he got.
Sharing sweet cuddles with my sick baby boy.


Shortly after our return home my baby girl turned two years old.
I'm still not sure how it's possible that she's two, but from the moment I first held her
to the moment I watched her blow out her candles she has been bringing me so much joy.
She has amazed me with her beauty, intelligence, and sweetness every single day
for the past two years and I know she will continue to for the rest of my life.
She is truly something special and my love for her is impossible to explain.
Even though she was sick, I think she had a good birthday.


The husband and I celebrated our three year anniversary on September 17.
This year was the first year we actually got to go out on an anniversary date,
and although we didn't do anything fancy it was a wonderful night spent just being "us."
The past three years have been full of big decisions and major life events 
(some joyous, some stressful, some sad), but through it all our love for each other has
continued to grow.  We are more in love today than we were on the day we said "I do"
and to me that is so incredible because we were already so deeply in love.
My husband, my Joshua Scott, my best friend is my everything today and will 
continue to be until the day I die.  I love you Handsome Man.
Marrying this man changed my life and filled it with so much love and happiness.

Yes, this is how we acted on our anniversary date.


We left our ocean view and sandy beach behind when we left Japan,
and it appears as if Jude decided to leave his baby stage behind as well.
He is a pulling up and climbing on everything little monster.
He's a rascal and he knows it.  He looks back at Daddy and me
before doing something he knows he's not supposed to then flashes us
a huge smile, shakes his head, and laughs hysterically.
It's just about the cutest thing in the world.  He's fearless and daring
which worries me a little bit.  He is definitely all boy and there is no doubt that
we are going to have our hands full with him.  Thankfully he's still a huge Momma's boy
so I still get lots of kisses and cuddles, all of which I embrace, cherish, and love.
 This boy melts me heart.


On top of all that we have been house hunting since before we even got back to Kansas City.
We've probably looked at 1,000 houses online and been to 100 in person, at least. 
As usual, the process hasn't exactly gone smoothly.  We have made an offer on a total of four homes,
one of which we went under contract on only for it to fall through at the last minute.  
 Luckily we have found another great house since then and everything seems to be on track 
for us to move in in just over a month.  I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

We've also had to shop for two new cars since we both sold ours before moving to Japan.
I've always said that I never want to own a mini van, but I must admit that I am
absolutely loving my new "Momma Wheels."  The convenience of a mini van
definitely outweighs the stylish looks of my old Chevy Traverse.

But the most stressful part of this transition phase we are in has been
not having any of our stuff from Japan.  We have been living out of two suitcases
and a couple of boxes we personally shipped for the past two months.
We have not seen any of our household goods, most of our clothes, and the 
majority of the babies' toys since the end of July so day to day life has been a little inconvenient.
Thankfully my mom set us up with the basics 
(dishes, a couple pots and pans, silverware, and some toys)
other wise we'd really be having a rough time. She has been a huge help to us.
All of our stuff finally arrived in Kansas City about a week and a half ago,
but we can't get any of it until we move into a house so I really hope this one works out. 

Trying to get everything situated and organized has meant a lot of running around
and dragging the kids from place to place, appointment after appointment. 
It's a good thing we are able to fill what spare time we do have with moments like these...


Watching our kids play together is such a blessing.


Yes, it's been a crazy two months, but our family is together.
We are happy, healthy, and ready to start this next chapter of our lives
creating incredible memories together.  I welcome any further craziness that comes up along
the journey because the six of us can laugh and smile through anything.

4 comments:

  1. They booked your flights separately?!?! Honestly, I don't even have words. We just moved to England and are living out of a suitcase and praying our house comes through! It's hard entertaining babies that way!

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  2. Oh my goodness, you are a super mama! Two babies on that long of a flight. Amazing. I am so glad you are getting settled even though it is going slowly and I am so happy that your whole family is back together again.

    I can't believe how big Jude and Emma have gotten!

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  3. My darling daughter, you are my hero! What you have done with your life these past few years amazes me. You became a wife, moved half way across the world and a mother in just 3 short years. You have grown so much during your time in Japan. It still astounds me how calm you were when you had to fly home by yourself with both babies.

    I am so excited to have you, Josh and my precious grand babies back in KC. These past few months have been fantastic getting to spend time with you Emma and Jude, and of course you and Josh. I have also enjoyed getting to know Lilly and Raley better. You know I love those girls as if they were my own flesh and blood. I am happy they seem to be taking to us, as well.

    I am looking forward to watching you continue to grow as my daughter, a wife and a mother. I know you will meet the challenge of all 3 head on. I cannot find the words that describe how much I love you. As I said at the beginning, you are my hero! The love you and Josh have for each other will allow you to conquer everything that you encounter over the years.

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  4. I thought about you the other day since I have to fly home with the baby for Christmas and my husband will not be joining me. I'm scared to death but figured if you could do it with both babies, then I can do it with one...right?!

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